tOO HURT TO HANG OUT FOR A WHILE, WILL BE BACK WHEN I GET OVER IT.

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  1. Jackie

    Jackie Active Member

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    Nah, I was just IGNORING YOU!!! So NYAH!!! :p

    (Seriously, I was consideringhow to respond, and then things got hectic with my FIL. He's coming home from the hospital, and we're trying to arrange their house to accommodate a hospital bed).
     
  2. KrisRV

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    that is what I thought I thought.

    Sure Jackie come and help with the jet.. it might help alittle.


    I am not upset with anyone here I just don't get it. I didn't want to respond to a pm and get bashed. What a world we live in...
     
  3. Deena

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    Here's one: I once got bashed, in a post seen by all, for bragging about my husband's and my good relationship when other people were struggling. Since I was so perfect maybe I should go find a board where the perfect people were! I was shocked! I'm just so happy with my dh, but it certainly wasn't a put-down on those who are struggling!

    That took some working out, but now I don't remember who it was, or exactly how it came about. We worked it out, it blew over and we moved on.

    I am hoping that you two wonderful ladies can move on too! Each one of you feels the other one has wronged you, you're both hurt. It'll take maybe some time and some work, but please try to let this go! As you can see, you are both loved ladies, and we need you on this board!
     
  4. Singing Strong

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    Praying for both you guys. All of us have screwed up royally at one time or another.

    Chooseing to forgive is the first step , conting to choose....feeling follow.

    It's very easy for misunderstanding to happen when all there is are typed words...
     
  5. JenniferErix

    JenniferErix New Member

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    You guys deserve some clarification.
    It is my fault for making it public, so it is my job to clean it up.

    Here is my best effort.....


    Time line:
    AKA: "8 Steps to Insure Your Insanity"


    1. I started a thread about my kids liking ants.
    2. Kris wrote a post about ants in her house.
    3. I wrote that we are overrun by ants many times, so we are used to it.

    Go head, read it yourself. (I still see nothing wrong with either of our posts. No sign of impending trouble.)
    http://homeschoolspot.com/showthread.php?t=16699


    4. For some reason, out of the blue, I got this message.....
    http://images2d.snapfish.com

    5. I immediately wrote back to clear up what I thought was a crossed wire.

    6. I got no reply after writing twice.

    7. After a few days with still no reply .... I wrote to a common friend to help clear the air. I did not bad Mouth her. That friend KNOWS this, and that's all that matters.

    8. Then, I screwed up and took the lack of reply personally and let it affect me. (Don't ever do this.) I wrote a public posting about being hurt. I thought I was just blowing off steam because I did NOT name her in any way ....... But it doesn't matter. That was stupid and I apologize for allowing this crap to boil up. I should have just let it go. Lesson learned.






    I did finally get a message from KrisRV AFTER my goodbye post...

    She told me that she has hated me ever since I was supposedly told to "Leave the Board" and never did, THREE YEARS AGO....????

    Who the hell holds a grudge over some post in a forum that was a misunderstanding from three years ago????? Those are archived. Read'em if you want to. I remember that now. Ya'll miss understood what I wrote and refused to hear my explanation. And I let it get to me.
    (Sounds vaguely familiar for some reason...)


    Well now I understand the irrational response.



    Seriously?
    Three years ago????



    You are apparently determined to be mad at me forever and I refuse to be your rage dumpster.

    May you find the peace you need, the happiness you deserve and whatever makes your world better.






    So that is the time-line.
    As far as I am concerned, it ends now.











    I could seriously use some Ice Tea, considering that it is 80 FREAKIN' DEGREES Down here! I mean, short of that one day of light snow, we got jipped out of a winter!
    Someone send the ICE CUBES!







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  6. JenniferErix

    JenniferErix New Member

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    ABall Super Moderator

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    We are all very special to this board and each and every person brings a special touch to the board.

    However we can't always agree with each other on every matter.

    With that said I think that this was an issue that really has been drug out too far in this public area and I think its a good time to close the thread.

    Now lets all take a deep breath and let the ants go marching on one by one.................. sorry that little song just popped into my head.
     
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