My FIL

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  1. Jackie

    Jackie Active Member

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    Just wanted to tell you ladies, my best friends, that my fil passed away earlier this evening. I posted a few weeks ago that he wasn't expected to live at that time, but since then he'd been doing so much better. This afternoon he took a turn for the worse, and asked to be taken to the hospitial, where he died.

    Actually his passing is a blessing. He was "ready" to go, and was frustrated with not being able to do anything but sit and look out the window. And, as much as my mil is missing him right now, caring for him in the state he was in would have been VERY draining on her. She would scarcely leave his side. I was going over most mornings for an hour so she could take a shower and things. Carl was going over on Sundays, telling her to go to church, but she wouldn't go. So now, after the funeral, I am sure life will settle down to a more normal routine.
     
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  3. sixcloar

    sixcloar New Member

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    Jackie, my prayers are with your family.
     
  4. ABall

    ABall Super Moderator

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    Sorry to hear it, even being prepared, its never easy I'm sure.
     
  5. erica3010

    erica3010 New Member

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    My prayers are with you and your family Jackie. I'm so sorry to hear this.
     
  6. MamaBear

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    ((((Jackie))))
     
  7. Lisa

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    Your family is in my prayers.
     
  8. CrystalCA

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    You and your family will be in my thoughts.
    ((((Hugs))))
     
  9. momofafew

    momofafew New Member

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    I am sorry for your family's loss.
     
  10. Lee

    Lee New Member

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    Sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
     
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    dalynnrmc New Member

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    It's always hard when a family member leaves us, even if it's expected. ((hugs)) and prayers!
     
  12. Emma's#1fan

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    Jackie, your family is in my prayers.
     
  13. sloan127

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    Jackie, So sorry to hear about your father in law. Your family is in my prayers. Beth
     
  14. Jackie

    Jackie Active Member

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    Thanks, all. We called by sil today, and learned that she and her mom were at the house. My mil wanted to go through his stuff as quickly as possible. My sil said she (mil) was doing good; she would get emotional for a bit, then work for a while, then get emotional again. Which is to be expected.
     
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    I'm very sorry, Jacke.
     
  16. P.H.

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    'Just now reading this, Jackie. Saying "good-bye" is never easy, even when we have confidence that we'll see our dear one again. (Hugs)
     
  17. Marylyn_TX

    Marylyn_TX New Member

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    I'm sorry, too, Jackie. Your fil was a very nice man and a great story teller! I'll be praying for you mil and your family.
     
  18. Trish

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    I am sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.
     
  19. Ava Rose

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    So, sorry, Jackie. As expected as these things are they are still never easy. I am happy your fil is no longer suffering. I will pray for your family!
     
  20. Ohio Mom

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    Jackie, just reading this, so sorry to hear about your fil. You and your family are in my prayers.
     
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    Jackie, so sorry for you loss. I hope our FIL is finally at peace. (((hugs))) to you and yours.
     

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