Please pray for my family>>just discovered my husband having an affair

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  1. mcilvoy6

    mcilvoy6 New Member

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    I will post more later...I am in shock and disbelief.........we have been married 22 years and are believers..........Will check in later..Thank you
     
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  3. shelby

    shelby New Member

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    Sending up prayers!
     
  4. 1mom04

    1mom04 New Member

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    OMG....I'm so sorry....I don't even like hearing about that stuff.
     
  5. Minthia

    Minthia Active Member

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    ((hugs)) I am so sorry! Praying for you.
     
  6. Brooke

    Brooke New Member

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    (((((hugs)))))) Love you, sister. Praying for you and your family.
     
  7. Lee

    Lee New Member

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    (((((((hugs)))))) I am sooo sorry. Prayers for you and your family.
     
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    Ohio Mom New Member

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    Praying for you and your family. Hebrews 13:5 ...I will never leave thee nor forsake thee.
     
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    (((HUGS))) I'm so sorry! Praying for you!!!!
     
  10. LucyRicardo

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    I am so very sorry. I am praying for you and your family.


    LR
     
  11. ForTheSon

    ForTheSon New Member

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    I will keep you in my prayers. I went through this myself. It can feel so isolating. Vent in here if you need to, we will listen. ((((HUGS!)))) sweetie.
     
  12. Lori K

    Lori K New Member

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    We are praying for you.
    Make sure you stay in contact with "sane and rational" individuals as this ordeal unravels.
    I'm so sorry.
     
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    (((hugs))) I will certainly pray for you (and him, even though I don't feel like it).

    An often overlooked bit of advice that needs to be given to anyone who's spouse has cheated is to be sure to get tested for STDs as soon as you can. I know with everything else you are dealing with, it's the last thing you want to think about, but it's crucial.
     
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    Oh girl. keep fighting and keep us update. we are here for you.
     
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    PRAYING! that has to be a shocker, will pray all works out to the good!
     
  16. WIMom

    WIMom New Member

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    I am here praying for you!!! Sending (((HUGS))) too!
    In late November I found that my hubby was having what he called "an e-mail only" type of betrayal with a gal co-worker.

    I am so sorry you are going through this!
     
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    I am sorry, Mcilvoy6. I am praying that you'll be able to keep your homeschool functioning at some level and that your family will receive Godly support and counsel during this nightmare. I'm praying that a good friend will be there to help you think things through.
     
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    My prayers are with you. Beth
     
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    I am so sorry!! How horrible!!! (((hugs)))
     
  20. mcilvoy6

    mcilvoy6 New Member

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    Thank you everyone for your prayers and encouragement. We have spent the last 3 days with no kids...trying to sort through it all. I have never felt such dispair and pain in all my life. I don't know how I will ever work through it...I have been seeking God's wisdom these past few days...it is only because of Him, that I stumbled upon a letter to her that was stored in one of his files........I am just taking it minute by minute at this point. He lost his job the same day........I have much more to say but am so weary.......will be back as I can. Our children found out the same time I did and are having an especially difficult time ...( teens)...I have only started to homeschool in Sept...and I'm not sure how I am supposed to be teaching.......when all that is on our hearts is this.....plus..Dad will now be home while looking for a job( has interview tomorrow though) ...I can't even think straight.......I have Lupus and because of the stress..I am in a flare and racked with physical pain as well. Please pray for a miracle...
    Thanks
     
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    At least your children aren't trying to deal with this emotional pain while attempting to keep up in public school. They'll have time to make up for what they are 'missing' right now.
     

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