Ok...the hubby and I have been talking about when we were going to have another child. I would like one soon, or at least try. The time I feel is ok (if God agress), plus if I have one next year then I will have an excuse to stay home and keep up with the daycare. Anyways...he tells me today (over an email of all things...MEN!) that he thinks it would be ok to "see what happens". I was shocked because it has taken me a LOT of convincing. I told him we should talk about it in person, and that I want him to actually "want" another one, not just give in to shut me up. Soooooooooo, we may be trying soon!!! Thumbs up, hopefully! I'll report more when we actually talk face to face about it. :love:
How exciting! I'll be praying for you! I bet that even if you start trying just because he is "giving in to you" that if it happens, he'll be very excited and wonder what took YOU so long to come around to wanting to have another child!!! :lol:
Whoohoo! HOpe it all works out well! I planned my last and it was great to actually plan. My last is the only one I planned. I planned that one to a tee also. I wanted to be pregnant by September and I was. God really blessed us. I pray He blesses you also!
Funny...that's what the hubby keeps telling me.:lol: "Why can't we just practice?" he says. MEN! We haven't talked yet. Probably after the boy goes to bed, but hopefully it will go well. I just don't officially want to go off my BC if he doesn't really want one. We'll see what happens. I'll give an update.
Well, we talked! I guess my last day on BC is officially yesturday! I don't know whether to scream for joy or wonder what's going on in his head. It's kind of odd. He said he's been doing a lot of thinking. We aren't getting any younger. When we had Tanner we were in such a poor house state so if we made it then (with him being a "surprise") then we certainly could get by another time, God willing. He wouldn't mind just seeing what happens if it's in God's plans. This is all what he told me. So, I guess I should be happy, and I am. I guess I'm just in more shock than anything so it may take me a couple days to get over the initial shock of him bringing this up. This has been an up hill battle for over a year now so that is why I'm just kind of blown away. It's all in God's hands now! We'll see what happens. Last time it only took a couple months off BC to get PG. So...I may be writing an "I'm Pregnant" thread in July or August ladies!!! Oh, and Becky, I told him what you said and he agrees!!! Of course! Men!
Jennie, That is so cool. I am so happy for you. By the time I get up north to see you might have a new little bundle of joy for me to spoil. I have some wonderful babysitters that would love to spoil the little one too. I wish you both all the luck in the world and keep us updated.
LOL. Hey Jen- when you're all pregnant and tired tell him he can practice with rags and a mop, cleaning the house!! Nothing like a fair trade, I always say.
I'll just hand over all my daycare kids when he gets home from work. He needs to start practicing taking care of more than one!!!
