I am so frustrated right now.. I feel like my hands and my families hands are tied and nothing can be done.. I wrote a post on the christian forum about my sister and loosing custody of her kids.. it really an injustice seriously!! The dad has the kids thanks to his detective dad pulling strings.. I'm SICK!!! My sister delivered the kids to the dad last night and even with him not seeing the kids for a week he didn't even hug them or talk to them.. He told them to go inside and he would be there in a minute. He was only interested in getting to my sister and trying to get her back.. He wouldn't get out of the door of her car so she could leave.. He's basically holding the kids as ransom.. He calls her constantly and only wants to talk about them getting back together.. As soon as she says she's not going back he starts throwing stuff in her face that the lawyer is going to do or he starts fabricating things that she supposedly did and how CPS is mad at her over it.. She answers the phone because she doesn't want to miss a call from the kids. One time my niece called and was talking to my sister and he took the phone from her and again tried to talk about them getting back together.. She talked to him and again said "there is NO us" and "no I'm not coming back, YOU HURT ME!" and asked to talk to my niece again and he said "you can talk to her on your designated visit days and hung up.. GRRRRRR!!! I want to punch the judge and everyone else involved in this mess.. They put those babies in danger by placing them with the dad.. I'm sure he has my 8 year old niece taking care of the 4 year old while he smokes his weed and plays xbox live in the bedroom....
So sorry the kids are in the middle of this mess. I will be praying for your sister and the children.
This is breaking my heart. Seems like the parent who actually cares and loves the kids always gets the short end of the stick...Praying for your niece and nephew's safety and peace for your family.
Well my sister spent two hours with the kids yesterday.. She had to take clothes to my Nephew for school today.. The kids were asking her to play with the sidewalk chalk with them.. They were so happy to see her! The dad followed her around trying to get her to work this out with him.. She said he wasn't too bad because the kids were right there I'm guessing.. She said every time the dad would walk away from them my niece would beg her to take her with her when she left.. My sister started having a bad asthma attack so had to leave with my niece crying... She said she hated leaving them.. And that she wonders if she should just go back so she can be with them again.. Which really PISSES me off! He abused her and SHE is the one who looses.. This is how our system works..
It is hard.. Kinda got an eye opener.. Feel bad for sis, but choices and decisions made in haste are never good ones.. I'm here for support and prayers, but I will NOT be caught in the middle of this.. Every single bit of advice I have given her from the beginning has been ignored.. Had she listened she wouldn't be in this situation.. I'm done.. Finished.. Leaving it in the hands of God.. He's the one in control anyway right?? All this is happening for a reason.. Heartbreaking as it is.
