This is my first year hs. We began our year at the end of May my oldest is in K. So far the year is going well. It is not without its challanges but going well. But recently my dad passed away 08/22/10 to be specific. I am the only child, my parents were divorced and my dad never remarried. Also dad lived 5 hours away. So now my life has become a little more complicated. Anyway I have so much on me dealing with the loss of my dad and all that comes with it. Being a wife, mom and the added role now hs mom. Hubby generally works a lot of hours during the week. He is the bread winner so I have to deal with the schedule he has. Anyway long story short I generally vent to hubby when he comes home and today he tells me that he thinks I should put the kids in public school so that I can reduce my stress level. :shock: I think the emoticons speak for themselves. I was not expecting him to say that in a millon years. So now I am feeling that I cant be free to share whats on my mind because I dont want to add wood to his fire. I don't know what to do or say. He told me yesterday that we will need to evaluate our hs situation at the end of the year to see if the added stress on me is worth the time and stress on our marriage :shock: help!