My daughters are very quiet. I think one is really shy but the other one I think has selective mutism. It's a social anxiety disorder and I'm not sure how to help her. My daughters only talk to us, her 2 grandmothers and 1 grandfather. My 8 yr old has one friend that she talks to at school and that's it. They've not said a word to their teachers, or anyone at church. They usually can talk to children when no other adults are around, but they won't talk to adults at all. I don't know what to do about it. Will they outgrow it or should I seek more help? Does anyone out there know of anyone who has had this problem? Thanks!