Dd has been having problems with some of the girls across the street. They told her yesterday she was too bossy (which she does have a tendancy to be and knows it) and that if she did not change the one girl would not play with her. Well today they were going to play a game and dd wanted to be the young animal but this other girl said she was going to be. Dd said this girl is always the young animal and she never gets to be it, I figure the truth is someplace between that. Dd tried to compromise and said why don't we be twins but the other girl said no and that dd had to play the animal part she did not want to, so dd broke out in tears (she can be very emotional). After she calmed down (this was after the one girl's brother threw a pine cone at her) they wanted to play a new game called spy. In order to play dd would have to sign an agreement that she would always have to be a spy (which consisted of looking in one of the windows of one of the houses), if she did not sign she could not play with them. She did not think it was right so she came home (in tears) but she stood up for what she thought was right. I am so proud that she came home and did what was right. I even let her have a prize from our treasure box. The problem is that dd really wants to be freinds with these two girls (who do go to ps) but I am really wondering if we should let her or not. I want her to have some friends but this incident kind of bothers me, am I being oversensative? What do you all think???