Okay -- now that I have gotten our curriculum; I need to start lesson plans. How do you plan your days? Do you do every subject everyday? (I am using Abeka) My son needs structure, however; I would like to be more relaxed and not push him like public school. Could I still give him a good education if I don't do language arts, math, spelling, and reading everyday? Any advice is welcome? (by the way I'm in NC, my son will be 10 in 2 weeks, and we will be doing fourth grade) Thank you - Tammy :?