You guys deserve some clarification.
It is my fault for making it public, so it is my job to clean it up.
Here is my best effort.....
Time line:
AKA: "8 Steps to Insure Your Insanity"
1. I started a thread about my kids liking ants.
2. Kris wrote a post about ants in her house.
3. I wrote that we are overrun by ants many times, so we are used to it.
Go head, read it yourself.
(I still see nothing wrong with either of our posts. No sign of impending trouble.)
http://homeschoolspot.com/showthread.php?t=16699
4. For some reason, out of the blue, I got this message.....
http://images2d.snapfish.com
5. I immediately wrote back to clear up what I thought was a crossed wire.
6. I got no reply after writing twice.
7. After a few days with still no reply .... I wrote to a common friend to help clear the air. I did
not bad Mouth her.
That friend KNOWS this, and that's all that matters.
8. Then, I screwed up and took the lack of reply personally and let it affect me. (Don't ever do this.) I wrote a public posting about being hurt. I thought I was just blowing off steam because I did NOT name her in any way ....... But it doesn't matter. That was stupid and
I apologize for allowing this crap to boil up. I should have just let it go. Lesson learned.
I did finally get a message from KrisRV AFTER my goodbye post...
She told me that she has hated me ever since I was supposedly told to "Leave the Board" and never did, THREE YEARS AGO....????
Who the hell holds a grudge over some post in a forum that was a misunderstanding from three years ago????? Those are archived. Read'em if you want to. I remember that now. Ya'll miss understood what I wrote and refused to hear my explanation. And I let it get to me.
(Sounds vaguely familiar for some reason...)
Well now I understand the irrational response.
Seriously?
Three years ago????
You are apparently determined to be mad at me forever and I refuse to be your rage dumpster.
May you find the peace you need, the happiness you deserve and whatever makes your world better.
So that is the time-line.
As far as I am concerned, it ends now.
I could seriously use some Ice Tea, considering that it is 80 FREAKIN' DEGREES Down here! I mean, short of that one day of light snow, we got jipped out of a winter!
Someone send the
ICE CUBES!
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