Adios

I think you need to stop now. You are not helping your case.

You've persisted in going after Amy. You've now quoted personal messages which is unethical and gets people banned on many if not most boards. You've let what was initially a small problem become more important then the friendships you've built here to the point that you're willing to leave over it.

Frankly, I understand the frustration in that quote from Amy and sympathize with her.

 

Since you want to play dirty pool, so will I, Heather. You need to admit you dissed Amy over on the chat board. Any time you brought up HSS, you said it was okay except for 'a certain moderator', 'that moderator.' so, anyone you might have encouraged to come here already has it in their head that the moderator is anal retentive and the site is unpleasant. So, I didn't stop going to chat just because there was no one on when I got there, I also quit because it was getting hard to keep my mouth shut every time you talked meanly about such a kind lady. And I don't believe for one second that she pm'd you hatefully. Just by her standing aside in all your hateful posting tells me she has abundant class. Take notes, hear?

 

I don't see that message as Amy telling her to leave, either. It's giving her a choice to do as she wishes. I don't see one forceful word in that message.

 

Listen Becky, i know you may have your panties in a bunch right now, in reality, we all knew who the little wanna be snitch was. But aball is more than welcome to talk to anyone over there, and also any of the girls here who visit over there, and they will confirm that i never bashed Aball, i bashed the rule, i will admit, but not aball. I said i didnt understand it, i didnt know why it mattered, the 5 word post, and i didnt know why amanda wouldnt pm me so i could understand better, i dont know why she didnt just pm me nicely and ask me to just put it in my sig, i mean that is exactly what i said word for word, and i have others here who can back that up. i just wish you would quit spreading lies, i mean you are doing exactly what you are accusing me of doing, and obviously you wanted to cause drama as well, since you pmed aball about this supposed bashing in chat but i chose to ignore it and just be nice to you even though i knew you didnt like me. Just so you know, i have shown others here the pm that i was sent bc i was almost accused of lying, and when they saw the pms, they were a little shocked that she would handle it this way, so who knows. I havent been here very long, i dont know her very well, i just know how ive been treated, and it wasnt mannerly or kind, it was mean and hateful, so im sorry, when i am treated that way i get my feelings hurt. i cant help it, but at least you are finely honest about trying to cause problems between aball and i.

 

Oh no, I don't think she was rude or forceful or wrong at all. It just sounded like she was frustrated, "here's your choice ma'am, make it. End of discussion."

And Heather made her choice. She just needs to stand by it now.

 

I think I'll ignore your posts until you come down off the crack you've been smoking..:roll:

 

I know, I meant I agreed with you.

 

Funny thing is I don't think she will... I think she is here to watch and see just how much drama she can create. Like I said in my previous post, as soon as I saw this this morning the little "this is NOT the end of this" light went on in my head. I knew darn well that she would be here trying to raise attention to herself and see how much drama she could create.

And by the way since Ms. Heather is hanging around to read everything and see what more fuel she can throw into the fire I want to say this:

No one here has ever said Amy (aka ABall) is perfect, most of us have said that we feel she does her job as a moderator fairly. NOBODY is perfect, and none of us here claim to be. Also, Amanda didn't PM you back right away... maybe that is because she has a life other than this board. If you pay attention, she started this board for us to have a home of our own. See way before even I joined the board, many of the wonderful moms here were members of another board.. a board that was really the home of what I will call "brick and mortar teachers" (Ladies who have been around since then please correct me if I'm wrong, those days were before my time here). I am very very grateful that she took her time to give us this place to come to, but as she told you pretty much herself in her post in your last drama thread, she has a life outside of this board.. she is due to have a baby any day, and if you have ever had a baby, then I'm sure you understand that last minute preparing for a baby takes the ultimate priority in your life. Also, if you pay attention, Amanda does not come around very often, maybe she does and we don't see her, but I can count on my 2 hands the number of times I have seen her post since I have been coming here. I will appologize, even though I don't feel it is deserved or necessary, but I'm sorry that you didn't get the "instant gratification" that you feel you need.

Oh and one more thing... I was just being nosey and going looking at your previous posts... and since at least mid November you have been posting and praising and trying to get others to come over to your chat room... almost DAILY you have posted about that room, so yeah I can see exactly where it got to be too much to be allowed. Esp when your posts are simply "You know where to find me" like you are too good to be here.

 

very mature becky, way to own up to your part in all this mess.:cry:

 

ok, if you are so sure i bashed aball personally, what exactly did i say? i mean after you told her that, and she pmed me, i trully sat down and thought " did i really bash her? maybe im forgetting something i said, bc i was talking about the rule, nothing else" and i even went back and asked some of the other girls for help in remembering exactly what i said, and we all seemed to remember the same conversation, and it had no personal bashing, so what are you talking about, i am really curious, i dont remember bashing her at all?

 

Ladies, I just wanted to let you all know that each and every one of us is feeding into this drama that Heather is trying to create. Even those who have said "no don't go".. you are giving her the thing she was hoping for the most. She wants to get all of our attention, and she wants to feel like she is the center of all of our worlds.

Just wanted to let you all know that you can click on her name, click on view profile and then click a little line under the first box that says add to ignore list. This is what I plan on doing because I personally left highschool 14 years ago, I am not going to relive all of this drama, I didn't stand for it back then, and I'm not going to stand for it now.

 

asking jen to pass the popcorn - and extra butter please

 

Ladies, I don't know what happened to set this off and I don't want to, but I do know that if I were a moderator, I would close this thread, because it just plain wrong what is happening right now and I am disappointed in the participation to continue this subject.

 

We could change the subject! Something inflammatory to end all this and get us engaged in a different discussion. Maybe this...

Caramel topping is the only way to go when ordering a McDonald's sundae people. And if you don't add peanuts, you're a weenie!

 

I have not read ALL POSTS

However I would like to clarify that in my last PM to Heather..... I spoke personally not as a modorator........... you know I am both a participant and a modorator and sometimes I do express my feelings as just a participant.

 

Wow, cool, on online cat fight!

 

Absolutely reasonable and fair.

But you completely ducked the controversial sundae toppings issue.

 

http://homeschoolspot.com/showpost.php?p=237101&postcount=33

I vote for suspensions!

Both sides need a time out.

By the way, when I leave a forum, and I have done so because of things like this that did not involve me, I just leave. If I have someone to thank or say good-bye to, I do it in a PM, but that is just me.

Still, it is something to think about....