I haven't been on here on a long while, mostly because we are done homeschooling. However, i am concerned about my son and I don't want to speak to family at this time. I think he is depressed and possibly bi-polar. He had been to counseling in the past and almost went to a new therapist a few weeks ago, but changes his mind. He is 20 years old and I can't force him. He sleeps a lot and does hardly anything at home and stays by himself much more the past year than ever before. We bump heads when it comes to chores. He does have a full time job. I am SO thankful for that. I think that keeps him a little more stable and gives him some motivation. I go in his room to visit and sometimes it works out and sometimes it is real quiet. I feel bad because i have been through a lot of depression myself as he was growing up. I am afraid I didn't show him enough joy in life. I don't want him to be depressed. I want him to grab onto life fully and enjoy the ride so to speak. Just needed to vent.