tOO HURT TO HANG OUT FOR A WHILE, WILL BE BACK WHEN I GET OVER IT.

I AM COMING OFF THE HIGH ROAD, BECAUSE IT GOT ME NOWHERE.


SOMEONE PUNCHED ME PRIVATELY WITH NO RECOURSE TO TELL THEM THEY WERE WRONG, NOR A CHANCE TO FIND OUT WHY THEY THINK THIS OF ME, NOR, ANYTHING....

REFUSES TO ANSWER MY MESSAGE OF: "HEY I LIKE YOU. YOU ARE WRONG TO THINK I DON'T LIKE YOU, AND YOU MISS-READ MY POST....... OR ANYTHING..."

NOPE..
JUST PUNCHED ME WITH A B.S. ACCUSATION AND RAN AWAY LIKE A "COWARD".

SUPPOSEDLY I AM SUPPOSED TO UNDERSTAND THAT THIS PERSON IS GOING THROUGH SOMETHING TOUGH, AND MAYBE THAT IS WHY THEY THOUGHT WHAT THEY THOUGHT...

HMMMM.,.....

YET THIS PERSON CONTINUES TO POST AS IF NOTHING IS WRONG IN THEIR LIFE AND HOW THEY JUST LOVE EVERYONE.

YOU ARE A SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY. BECAUSE NOW i DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOU.

I CANNOT BELIEVE I SPENT OVER A WEEK WORRIED THAT YOU THINK I DO NOT LIKE YOU, NOW, I REALLY DO NOT CARE. YOU SUCK FOR THE WAY YOU TREATED ME.

I OBVIOUSLY NEED A BREAK FROM HERE.
I CANNOT BELIEVE HOW HURT I AM OVER SOMEONE I "SUPPOSEDLY" DID NOT CARE ABOUT.
Hmmm.....
WHY WOULD I BE SO HURT OVER A PRIVATE MESSAGE BY SOMEONE I DO NOT CARE ABOUT???

OH! I KNOW.. BECAUSE I "DID', AND YOU WERE WRONG. BUT NO MORE, NOW YOU ARE RIGHT. HAPPY NOW?

HOW DARE YOU WONDER THROUGH THIS BOARD AS IF YOU ARE JUST SO LOVED AND LITTLE DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT YOU DO IN PRIVATE MESSAGES.

I TRIED TO TAKE THE HIGH ROAD.
I WROTE YOU BACK RIGHT AWAY TO MAKE SURE YOU KNEW THAT YOU MISREAD MY POST. I WROTE TO YOU IMMEDIATELY TO LET YOU KNOW YOU HAD ME PEGGED WRONG AND THAT I DO CARE FOR YOU.

BUT NO,
I WAS NOT ALLOWED THAT PRIVILEGE THAT YOU HAD.

I AM ACTUALLY REALLY HURT AND I HATE YOU FOR THAT.

YOU ARE NOT A NICE PERSON.
YOU HAVE EVERYONE FOOLED THAT YOU ARE SO WONDERFUL.

MAY YOU SLEEP WELL TONIGHT KNOWING THAT YOU ACCOMPLISHED WHAT YOU WANTED TO ACCOMPLISH WITH THAT MESSAGE. I LOST SLEEP OVER BEING WORRIED ABOUT YOU. HOW STUPID AM I FOR WORRYING ABOUT YOU AND TRYING TO MAKE SURE YOU KNEW THAT I CARED???SNAKE IN THE GRASS.

 

Yikes! I know nothing of this situation or the other person involved, but I hope all is resolved peacefully! I hope to see you back again soon JenniferErix.

 

Im sorry to read of this JE.

I really enjoy reading your well thought out posts.

Hope to see you here again soon.

x

 

Jen~I am so sorry someone made you feel this way! Please know that you have my support and admiration! Please take care and know that we care for you, even though there is apparently a bad rotten apple in our midst..........we are supposed to be here to support each other and SHAME ON WHOMEVER DID THIS TO YOU.....I dont know the details (dont need to know them...) but unfortunetly I have seen the ugliness that you seem to be speaking of and it is a shame that there are grown women on here that would behave in such a ugly manner. Keep taking the high road hon~you are a way better person!

 

:love:

 

I am very sorry for how you are feeling JenErix....I always enjoy reading your very informative and well written posts...actually sometimes I wish I could write such excellent posts..but I just am not very good with written communication...but know this...I LOVE YOU! Please come back soon..I'll miss you and all your wonderful information. ((HUGS))

 

(((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))

Dont let one persons ugliness make you doubt what a caring, loving, giving and wonderful person you are!!!!!

 

Take a break, deal with it in your heart, and then return. As Squarepeg said, you can't let just one person make you doubt yourself. Jen, I've seen you mature and blossom so much since Jack's accident! You are appreciated!

 

JEN, PLEASE DONT LEAVE ON ACCOUNT OF ONE PERSON'S UGLINESS. YOU HAVE BEEN SO SWEET TO ME, ALWAYS HELPFUL, OFFERING ANY GREAT ADVICE, GIVING OUT YOUR WEBSITE FOR OTHER HELPS, HELPING A COMPUTER NEWBIE WITH UPLOADING PICS AND SUCH.

JUST KNOW WE ALL WANT YOU HERE, AND I KNOW IT IS EASY TO BE HURT WHEN YOU HAVE SOMEONE PMING YOU MEAN MESSAGES, AND THEN ACTING ALL NICE ON THE BOARD. MAYBE YOU NEED A BREAK OR MAYBE WE CAN JUST IGNORE THAT SNAKE AND GET ON WITH THE LIFE WE HAD BF SHE CAME INTO IT.

WHATEVER YOU DECIDE, JUST KNOW WE ALL LOVE YOU AND WANT YOU HERE!!

:love:,
HEATHER

 

I hope you will be able to work past the hurt and come back soon. I will miss you. Beth

 

Hurtful words are the worst. Take some time to heal and recover, but don't forget to come back! This board would not be the same without you here!

 

((((hugs))))

 

I am so sorry for what happened and sorry you are hurt. I agree with Jackie, that you have grown so much since Jack's accident. Take a break...go ahead...just know there are those here who do care about you, find what you add to HSS important and will miss you.

 

((((Jen))))

You will be missed. You can always put that person on your ignore list. Don't let one person keep you from the board.

I once stuck up for someone and the majority did not care for this person or what she said and I later got a couple pm's from two different people stating she was talking smack behind my back. I just ignore her, she is not worth my time.

:love:

 

well I am sorry that this person was such a jerk to you. I dont know you or anybody else all that well here but I do enjoy your posts. I hope you come back. Take care and ((hugs))

 

{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

 

I have always enjoyed your posts, Jen.
You are appreciated.
I will pray for your heart to heal.
I know that anguish, too.
(((((((hugs))))))))))

 

So sorry this happened Jen. I understand the much needed break from here. This board is not what it once was and I have seen a lot of tension here lately. Some people seem to be taking things way too far.

I hope you will take a break, a couple of deep breaths, maybe pray about it and we'll be here when you are ready to join us again.

It's amazing how complete strangers can hurt your feeling isn't it? It' happened to me, it's happened to others, I'm sorry it happened to you.

I'll miss you.

 

Wow, I'm sorry to hear about this.

You know...if we can get over our differences and be friends than ANYONE can!! Who would have thought that??

Just ingore them , they will get what is coming to them ( sooner or later).

Just remember we are here for you!!!

 

I'm sorry, too. I will be praying for healing for your heart from the pain this caused, Jen, and that you will quickly be able to forgive the person and move on. Anger and bitterness lingering in your heart will end up hurting you much worse than this person ever could have. I'll be praying that for the other person, too.