Oh, I'd LOVE to be the house all the kids hung out at (as long as they were good kids, lol!). Then I would know exactly where my kids were, and with whom. We did have a neighbor move in with...difficult...kids. They would play in our yard, and if they didn't behave, I sent them home. I never had any problems, because they knew better in my yard! One day, I was walking and ran into the mother for the first time. I said, "Oh, you must be D's mom!" And the first thing out of her mouth was "What did he do now?" I reassured her that he was fine when he was in my yard, and I just wanted to meet her. Eventually the kids stopped coming, which was OK with me because the older the became, the more trouble. The girl had a baby at 14, and D got in trouble for breaking into houses in the area (!!!) with a bunch of adult good-for-nothings. They've moved since!