What would you do?

[mamaof3peas]

monkey momma

why do you feel the need to constantly judge everyone who doesnt agree with you? we havent judged you just because you dont agree with us. we could have said things like, you only care about being politically correct, you could care less about how God feels about this issue, but choose to twist verses around to fit your needs!

but we havent! so why do you constantly do that to those of us who simply said we wouldnt go, not that your stupid for going, just that WE wouldnt go!

sorry but you are starting to really hurt my feelings as well!

 

[Autumnleavz]

I just want to say that I personally didn't intend to hurt no one's feelings. If I did I greatly apologize! I was just explaining my thoughts on the matter. I'm sure it hurts to feel like you're being attacked for your thoughts and beliefs.

 

[becky]

I wonder what would happen here on the Spot if there was a homosexual member here. Would you all be just as judgmental toward them?[/quote]


I said this looong ago, Tiffany.

 

[becky]

I went back and read everything over well. I have to agree with Tiffany here on this. Why say anything to your children about it. Do you tell them about every person you are going to see before you go some place. Like honey we are going to this place and there is going to be a green man with a red nose don't worry. No you don't I have never said anything to my children. I taught my children you love everyone, no matter what color, shape or what they do. It's what's in the inside that counts not the out. Come on get real they aren't going to do anything in front of everyone, I am sure if you don't say a thing, your children will never know. I know I have taken my kids to many things and we seen alot of them and the girls have never made a big deal out of anything. Its what you make of something, if you make nothing the children will make nothing. Go have fun and enjoy.

Why, I bet that loud mouth lady in the grocery store, on that other thread, was a lesbian!:wink:

 

[kbabe1968]

Wow. this thread really took on a life of it's own.

I want to clarify a few things, and then I think I need to request the moderators lock it from further comment...or delete if they see fit.

This thread did go beyond discussion and get quite personal to many. For that, I apologize.

In clarification....and if I insinuated or stated otherwise I'm sorry....I do not plan to tell my children anything regarding the couple, their family or their lifestyle unless there is something seen or a question is asked. My 9 year old is EXTREMELY observant and if there are family photos with 2 mommies and no daddy, I'm sure SHE will ask questions, but I don't think the 7 y/o or 3 y/o will catch on or notice anything.

I would ONLY LEAVE if something inappropriate occurred, which I doubt it would. I wouldn't go slobbering all over my husband if we had a homeschooling event at our house...nor would I expect these women to do that either.

I'm sorry, again, that this thread created strife for so many.

 

[Jackie]

Krista, you asked a fair, legitimate question. It's not your fault the direction this thread has taken. Please don't feel bad about it!

(I think you made a wise choice, btw!)

 

[seekingmyLord]

Wow. this thread really took on a life of it's own.

I want to clarify a few things, and then I think I need to request the moderators lock it from further comment...or delete if they see fit.

This thread did go beyond discussion and get quite personal to many. For that, I apologize.

That can happen in any thread and just because you asked the question does not make you responsible for how others responded to it and to each other. All those involved in the discussion are adults. Generally, I think that this discussion was good.

For the most part, I have found that when people take things to a personal level, it is because they choose to do so. You should not feel responsible for what others do.

You had a legitimate reason for asking the question, please don't be apologetic for that part. I just want you to know that I am very glad that you brought it before the Lord, the only One Who could really give you the right answer! I hope your family enjoys the outing and that your children learn good things! :love: