Maybe I need a TMI warning here I'm not sure I ever thought of sex as a chore. There have been times when I'm not in the mood, and usually hubby will respect that and then attack me the next day, or wait till I'm good and asleep and then sabatoge me before I am awake enough to fight back :lol: There have been many times when I'm not in the mood but do it anyway because I love him and want to make him happy.. and even though I started out the moment not in the mood, I enjoy every second of it. There are also streaks we go through that he isn't in the mood and I am, and the whole situation works in reverse. Really though, we have a very very active sex life (according to him he gets it more than any other guy he works with.. at least the ones who have been with the same partner more than a few months :lol: [the things he and the guys talk about at work kill me, they have the nerve to talk about women talking about things!]), we started out as a one night stand... it was just so good it has never stopped
Thank you all for posting these things! I needed to read these and remind myself to do sweet things for hubby. For the last year or so I was getting bitter and keeping a scorecard of negative things and keeping mental notes of how much he was gone. I took dh's individual time as him running away from us (not wanting to be with us). I felt abandoned and neglected. I also felt overwhelmed, frustrated and tired. I felt I never got time to myself. I stopped saying nice things and became rather quiet. Dh took me feeling that way as I didn't love him very much anymore and I didn't appreciate him nor support him. He also said I didn't hug him as hard as I used to. Over the past few weeks I've started doing small things to let dh know that I appreciated him and that I love him. This past Sunday was the anniversary of our first date. We have been together 17 years! I bought him a card that said something about he is the love of my life and added my own notes to it too. He loved that! He thanked me over and over for the entire day! I usually don't buy or send cards, so he knows that was extremely special. Also, over the weekend we spent a lot of time with a locked bedroom door. Today hubby sent me red carnations! They are beautiful and brighten up the house! I hope dh and I can keep this flirting going! I love him so much!
